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Mood disorders like depression and bipolar affect millions of Americans every year[1] and can be debilitating[3] . As mental health awareness grows so does the need for treatment options[2] . Two popular therapies have gotten a lot of attention: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT). Both have been shown to work for mood disorders[4] but how do they compare?
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is a structured, time-limited, goal oriented form of therapy. Developed by Dr. Aaron Beck in the 1960s as a treatment for depression, CBT has since been used to treat many mood disorders including anxiety, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and bipolar disorder[3][4].
At its core, CBT is based on the idea that thoughts, emotions and behaviors are connected. By identifying and challenging negative thinking patterns individuals can change their emotional responses and behaviors and improve their mood[3].
Many studies show CBT works for mood disorders. For depression, CBT reduces symptoms and relapse[3][7]. A 2023 meta-analysis in The American Journal of Psychiatry found CBT was as effective as medication for mild to moderate depression, with longer-lasting results because it teaches skills for managing future episodes[7].
For example, a person with depression might learn to challenge thoughts like “I’m a total failure” by looking at the evidence for and against that thought and come up with a more balanced thought like “I’ve had setbacks but I’ve also had successes”[3].
CBT also works for managing symptoms of bipolar when used with medication[4]. Bipolar disorder involves complex mood cycles of depression and mania. CBT helps people manage their depressive phases by changing negative thought patterns that make them feel worthless or hopeless[4]. A 2024 study in Psychiatry Research found CBT improves overall functioning in people with bipolar when used with mood-stabilizing medication[4].
Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) was created in the late ’80s by psychologist Marsha Linehan as a treatment for people with borderline personality disorder (BPD)[5]. However, DBT has since been found to be effective for many other mental health conditions, especially mood disorders, when those disorders involve emotional dysregulation[5].
DBT combines CBT with mindfulness and acceptance strategies[5]. Its core is balancing acceptance of where you are right now with the need to change. The “dialectical” part of DBT means synthesizing opposites—accepting yourself while also working towards growth and change[5].
DBT is based on four main skill sets:
These skills are taught in a structured format, often in individual therapy sessions and skills training groups[5]. For example, a patient might learn the “STOP” skill (Stop, Take a step back, Observe, Proceed mindfully) to manage impulsive reactions in crisis[5].
Although DBT was originally developed for BPD, its effectiveness for mood disorders has been proven in recent years[5]. One of the areas where DBT shines is in helping people with severe emotional dysregulation, a common feature in mood disorders like bipolar or depression with co-occurring personality disorders[4][5].
A 2024 study in The Journal of Clinical Psychology looked at DBT for treatment-resistant depression. They found that those who did DBT had a significant reduction in depression symptoms, improved emotional regulation and a decrease in self-harm behaviors[5]. This is because DBT focuses on mindfulness and distress tolerance, which helps people navigate intense emotions without resorting to maladaptive coping mechanisms[5].
For those with bipolar disorder, DBT is most helpful during depressive or mixed episodes when emotions are at an all-time high[4][5]. It teaches skills for managing intense emotions, tolerating distress, and maintaining relationships during tough times[5]. For example, a person might use the “DEAR MAN” technique (Describe, Express, Assert, Reinforce, stay Mindful, Appear confident, Negotiate) to communicate needs and maintain relationships during mood swings[5].
Both CBT and DBT work for mood disorders but are suited for different people and conditions[3][5].
CBT’s structured approach to cognitive reframing is helpful for people whose mood disorders are driven by negative thinking[3]. Goal-focused and short-duration make it a quick fix for people looking for immediate practical tools to manage their symptoms[3].
DBT is better for people whose mood disorders involve big emotional dysregulation, impulsivity or co-occurring personality disorders[4][5]. DBT takes longer (often six months to a year). Still, its focus on mindfulness, acceptance and emotional regulation makes it more effective for people who have intense mood swings or chronic suicidality[5].
When choosing between CBT and DBT for mood disorders:
When considering therapy for mood disorders, the choice between CBT and DBT depends on several things: the nature of your symptoms, your personal preferences and your treatment goals[3][5].
Recent research is moving towards combining elements of CBT and DBT in treating mood disorders[3][5]. This approach aims to combine the best of both worlds, addressing cognitive restructuring and emotion regulation[3][5]. For some people, a combination of both may be beneficial as each addresses different aspects of emotional and cognitive functioning[4][5].
For example, CBT for challenging negative thoughts[3] and DBT skills for emotion regulation and distress tolerance[5]. This combined approach is good for people with complex mood disorders[4][5].
CBT and DBT are two great therapies for mood disorders, each with its own strengths and ways of working. CBT is about changing negative thought patterns to improve mood and DBT is about mindfulness, acceptance and emotional regulation. Both are helpful for depression, bipolar and other mood disorders.
The choice between CBT and DBT should be based on your individual symptoms, treatment goals and preferences. For some a combination of both may be the best treatment. As mental health treatment evolves these therapies are here to stay to help you feel better and recover.

Shebna N Osanmoh is a board-certified Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner with extensive experience across the mental health spectrum. Holding a Master’s in Psychiatric/Mental Health Nursing from Walden University, Shebna provides compassionate, culturally sensitive care for a wide range of mental health conditions, emphasizing holistic and individualized treatment approaches to support patients in their wellness journey.
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