How Single Parents Can Manage Mental Health and Thrive Well
Key Takeaways: You are not alone — 25.1% of American children live in single-parent homes. Proven treatments like home therapy and support groups…

Workplace life today resembles another kind of world altogether. The way in which the pandemic shifted our “desks home” shifted the ways of working, what to fear, and finally, how to manage such. Better still, to a new normal of longer working hours, shabby job security, and increased competition in daily lives. No wonder anxiety has emerged as an intimate companion to accompany us in our work life. You are not alone in this. Studies show that nearly half of Americans have felt their mental health shake under such pressures.
This means that typical stress does not just weigh upon our mind; it also weighs upon our body. When worry is a constant companion, it can even ignite fires of inflammation that spread throughout both the heart and the brain. But here’s the silver lining: we now have tools to aid us in these testing times. Mindfulness, once simply described as a spiritual activity, has now been found to be a practical, scientifically based way to facilitate some relief from our quotidian tensions.
Mindfulness, in a sense, will be that anchor in stormy times—the simplest and most potent way to reconnect with your well-being. It is not about escaping reality but about stabilizing within it. In the changed world of work, learning to care for our mental health is no longer an option but rather a necessity for thriving in our new normal.
Mindfulness means paying attention to the present moment with openness and a willingness to be curious. It’s as if you’re hosting a guest (yourself) in your own home (your life) and inviting whatever is happening there (inside and around you) to hang out right at the table. You quietly let go of judging and reacting and allow life to become a beautiful experiment.
Imagine a pause button for your mind in the middle of any crazy situation. You’re not stopping the movie that is life but you are equipping yourself with clarity so that you can respond instead of react.
Mindfulness is not just a way to calm your mind; it radically changes the architecture of your brain. Imagine your brain is a city and your thoughts are traffic on crowded roads. With mindfulness, you can build more roads and improve traffic flow over time.
Here’s how mindfulness transforms the brain:
Next, you’ll see changes in your emotional response to life situations. Mindfulness helps you regulate your emotions by giving you more control over your amygdala – your “panic button” that triggers stress and fear. It’s like adjusting the volume on your panic button so you don’t react with as much reactivity.
Now that you know how mindfulness changes your brain, it’s easy to see that it’s much more than a way to relax. It’s a powerful tool for transforming your relationship with stress.
When you practice mindfulness, you’re not just feeling calmer – you’re actually changing your brain in remarkable ways. Imagine your brain as a busy city, with streets (neural pathways) that can be redesigned and improved over time.
Here’s how mindfulness works its magic in your brain:
By understanding how mindfulness literally reshapes your brain, you can see why it’s more than just a relaxation technique – it’s a powerful tool for lasting change in how you handle stress.
Consider mindfulness as a refuge for your mind. The research shows it’s not just helpful. It’s almost as effective as medication for depression and anxiety. And the best part? It’s prescription-free.
Practicing mindfulness regularly gives you many benefits:
In our busy lives, it’s easy to get caught up in our workload and let it consume our thoughts. But there is a simple solution waiting for us. When things start to feel overwhelming, take a short break—go for a walk without your phone, just you and the environment around you.
Give yourself 15 minutes. As you walk, try to take in the small senses that we often miss – the feel of the sun on your skin, the sound of leaves rustling, the sensation of your feet hitting the ground. This isn’t a luxury and it’s a necessity. Take deep breaths and clear your mind. Don’t worry if you feel people are judging you for walking and not power walking – it’s not about being lazy; it’s about making time for clarity and focus in the midst of your busy day.
Do you notice tension in your body at work? You’re not alone. Our bodies hold stress like a clenched fist, especially in our shoulders, neck or jaw. Body scanning is a simple way to release that tension and it only takes a few minutes of your time.
Think of it as a body check-in. Find a quiet spot to lie down, let your legs stretch out and close your eyes. Start with your feet—squeeze them gently, hold them for a moment and release them with a soft exhale. Do you feel that? That’s tension melting away.
Now move that feeling up your body, from toes to head, tensing and relaxing each area. Some spots might feel really tight—that’s your body telling you where it needs some extra love. There’s no time limit, no right or wrong way—just you taking a minute to connect and unwind.
If you’re like most of us, your day is filled with screens, notifications and endless digital tasks. Technology can feel overwhelming but it can also be your friend when finding moments of calm in the chaos. It’s not about fighting technology – it’s about using it mindfully.
Think of your screen time like waves in an ocean. Just as waves need both motion and rest, your mind needs regular breaks from digital input. Try setting gentle reminders to pause every hour or so. During these mini-breaks look away from your screen, stretch or simply take a few deep breaths. It’s like giving your mind a drink of water throughout the day.
You can even turn your digital tools into wellness buddies. Many apps offer quick mindfulness moments that fit into your busy day. A one-minute breathing exercise between meetings or meditation during lunch can transform your technology from draining to nourishing.
Feeling like you’re working on an island some days? You’re not alone. While deadlines and tasks fill our days, it’s the small moments of connection with colleagues that can make work feel lighter. Think of these moments as tiny bridges that not only make your day brighter but also help when things get tough.
The next thing you know is trying to grab another colleague for a quick coffee chat, helping out on a tight project or other little gestures of connection. These little acts of relationship make more than just work pleasant-they provide a safety net when stress creeps in. If we share our struggles and wins, even small ones, work’s no longer a solo journey but a shared adventure.
Feeling overwhelmed at work? Well, your breath might just be the simplest yet most powerful tool you already have. Like your best friend it is always there ready to help you find calm in noisy moments. Let’s think of our breath as our personal reset button: amazing how a few mindful breaths can shift everything.
Try this: Take a deep and slow breath through your nose and feel your belly balloon out. Then, it slowly releases the air out through your mouth, blowing softly on the flame of a candle. Feel that? That’s your body’s natural calming system at work. For some extra oomph on calmness, try the 4-7-8, breathing in for 4 seconds, holding for 7 then whoosh, it out for 8. It’s like a gentle hug for your nervous system.
Ever notice how a good laugh can lift the weight off your shoulders? It’s like a stress reset button. While work is serious business, adding some humor into your day isn’t just fun – it’s good for your well-being. Think of laughter as your stress melting superpower.
Try sharing a funny (but work-appropriate) story with colleagues during coffee breaks or keep a folder of your favorite comic strips for quick mood boosts between tasks. These little moments of joy aren’t just breaks from work – they’re like vitamins for your mental health. When we laugh together, those tough work moments feel a bit lighter.
Feeling stressed isn’t a sign of weakness – it’s a normal part of work life we all go through. The good news? Many workplaces now offer resources to help you manage those feelings like mindfulness workshops and counseling services. Think of these as your personal stress management toolkit.
Have you ever wondered if others struggle with the same work pressures? In mindfulness workshops you’ll find you’re not alone and you’ll learn practical ways to manage stress that fit into your daily routine. If you need someone to talk to, counseling services offer a private space to talk through your thoughts with a professional who gets them. It’s like having a stress coach in your corner.
Think of mindfulness as your sidekick through busy workdays. Like any good sidekick it’s there to help you navigate stress, build stronger relationships with colleagues and find calm in the chaos. Whether it’s taking a mindful breath between meetings, sharing a laugh with colleagues or attending a workshop to learn new coping skills, each small step adds up to a more peaceful day.
Creating a calmer work life isn’t about being perfect. It’s about being present and kind to yourself along the way. By taking care of your mental health today, you’re building a foundation for more positive and productive tomorrows. After all, a mindful workplace isn’t just good for you; it’s good for everyone around you too.
It’s your turn to start this journey. Which small step will you take today?

Shebna N Osanmoh is a board-certified Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner with extensive experience across the mental health spectrum. Holding a Master’s in Psychiatric/Mental Health Nursing from Walden University, Shebna provides compassionate, culturally sensitive care for a wide range of mental health conditions, emphasizing holistic and individualized treatment approaches to support patients in their wellness journey.
Key Takeaways: You are not alone — 25.1% of American children live in single-parent homes. Proven treatments like home therapy and support groups…
Money problems and mental health issues often go hand in hand. If you're asking "How can I get help without spending money?" you're not alone. Many…
The Silicon Valley executive arrives at work by 6 AM, leads three back-to-back meetings, codes for six hours straight and then stays late to "perfect" a…
"You are what you eat," is a saying that holds a lot of truth, especially when it comes to matters like brain health. What we consume directly or indirectly impa…